the Shadow : Illuminating the Dark Side of the Soul
by Connie Zweig Ph. D.,
Steve Wolf Ph. D.
Personal Growth Editor's Recommended Book, 09/01/97
According to authors Connie Zweig and Steve Wolf, each of us has shadows
that hold forbidden feelings such as shame, jealousy, greed, lust, and
rage. Left to their own devices these shadows will become destructive
saboteurs--causing us to betray our loved ones as well as ourselves.
It is not within our power to choose whether or not to have these shadows;
however, Zweig and Wolf believe that it is within our power to take
responsibility for our shadows and put them to productive use. Chapter
by chapter Zweig and Wolf reveal the shadow side of love, parenthood,
siblings, friendships, midlife, and work. Rather than deny or destroy
these shadows, the authors show readers how to confront and "romance"
them in order to access the energy, vitality, and creativity that usually
lie dormant within our dark sides.
"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by
making the darkness conscious."
--C. G Jung
Within each woman and man, the dim cavern of the unconscious holds our
forbidden feelings, secret wishes, and creative urges. Over time, these
"dark" forces take on a life of their own, forming an intuitively recognizable
figure--the shadow. A recurring theme in literature and legend, the
shadow is like an invisible twin, a stranger that is us, yet is not
us. When it acts out in the public domain, we witness our leaders, like
hero-villains, fall from grace in scandal. Closer to home, we may feel
overcome with rage, obsession, and shame or succumb to self-destructive
lies, addiction, or depression. These appearances of the shadow introduce
us to the Other, a powerful force that defies our efforts to tame and
Steve Wolf, Ph.D., and Connie Zweig, Ph.D., innovators in the use of
shadow-work in psychotherapy, have helped hundreds of clients in their
encounters with the dark side. Seeing it--meeting the shadow--is a first
step. Learning to live with it--romancing the shadow--is a life-long
challenge. It means reading the messages encoded in the events of daily
life in such a way that we gain consciousness, substance, and soul.
In fact, shadow-work is soul work.
With shadow-work, we cultivate a deeper self-knowledge and authenticity.
When we identify family shadow patterns, we move toward cultivating
family soul. When we untangle romantic projections, we begin to build
the soul of a relationship. When we face descent at midlife and meet
the underworld shadow, we reclaim the unlived life of the soul. And
when we retrieve our lost vitality and creative fertility--the gold
in the dark side--we nurture the hungry soul.
The authors weave together the rich perspectives of Carl Jung and James
Hillman, timeless Greek myths, and universal archetypal images with
insightful contemporary stories from their clients' lives. They show
that the shadow is not an error or a flaw; it is part of the natural
order of who we are. And it is not a problem to be solved; it is a mystery
to be faced. It has the power to connect us to the depths of our own
This book, breathtaking in scope and eloquent in style, is a landmark
investigation of the personal and archetypal dimensions of the soul's
hidden face--the shadow.
In much the same way that Thomas Moore's Care of the Soul synthesizes
the work of Jungian psychologist James Hillman for the popular audience,
this work revisits Jung's notion of "the shadow"--the dark side of our
collective unconscious. In this audio program, the authors present a
life plan that embraces the common darkness of peoples' psyches and
tells them how to turn it to their advantage. Simultaneous hardcover
release from Ballantine. 2 cassettes. --This text refers to the audio
cassettes edition of this title.